6 Signs You May Be in an Abusive Relationship
Abuse in relationships often begins as a whisper before growing to a roar. Over time, control, fear, and emotional harm escalate, leaving individuals unsure if what they’re experiencing is abuse. If something feels wrong but you can't quite name it, you may be experiencing a form of abuse. Recognizing the signs is a critical first step toward protecting yourself. If you are not in immediate danger, relationship counseling may be in order; however, not every relationship can be saved.
Abusive Relationships Take Many Forms
Abuse doesn’t always involve physical violence. Emotional manipulation, threats, isolation, and financial control are also forms of abuse. It's important to trust your instincts and pay attention to patterns that leave you feeling unsafe, diminished, or trapped. Six common signs of an abusive relationship include:
Constant criticism, belittling, or attempts to make you feel worthless
Isolation from family, friends, or support networks
Control over finances, schedules, or major decisions
Threats of harm to you, themselves, or loved ones
Unpredictable anger or emotional outbursts followed by blame
Gaslighting or denying your reality to make you question your sanity
If you see yourself in these patterns, know that you are not alone- and you deserve better. Therapy can help you explore your experiences and determine a plan for moving forward. Reaching out may feel scary, but it is a powerful step toward reclaiming your independence and peace of mind.
We’re Here for You
Whether you're still deciding what to do or ready to take action, therapy can give you the clarity, strength, and tools you need to move forward. Contact us today to start moving forward.
If at any point you feel unsafe, please call 9-1-1.
You can also call 800.799.7233 or visit thehotline.org for more resources.